[xxxrya]

sandyelaine416 wrote: Why are most black girls so rude?! Sometimes I go into a room that has mostly black people and the girls alot of the time act so rude! They call me names and start cussing at me for no reason! There are some really nice black girls but a lot are really rude and mean for no reason. Like I can't dance to rap or r&b music, I can't say I don't like Beyonce's new song, and I can't talk to a black guy... Apparently because then I get yelled at! So many of these black girls seem to like starting fights for no reason,<u> and they seem jealous of light skinned girls!!! </u>For no reason they start running their mouths if you just wallk into a room or say something they don't like. This happens ALL THE TIME! And when you get into an argument they always act like theyre so right and the smartest, most important thing in the world and like I'm yesterday's garbage! If you don't like the way I look then keep it to yourself! I don;t go around critisizing peoples looks just to start a fight and get them riled up!

Lmao if they were truely jealous of us "Light Skinned" meez's wouldn't they just make their meez light skinned?

And it's not just black people who do that. I like the preppy look. In real life I'm not a prep, but I guess on here I am. I walk into a room and the "Light Skinned" meez's tell me to leave, I don't belong there. So stop blaming one race for traits everyone contain. Rudeness.

[jourige]

how2party101 wrote: u dO haVe A POiiNt BuT y dO YaH cALL tHEm BLaCk. BuT Yah sElF LiiGHt-sKiiNeD ???HeLp MeH Out???

What do you want her to call them? African-American? Those girls could be Haitian.
Or any other nationality where the people are dark skinned. You probably might call her white. Or me. So, if you want people to call you African-American, then they will expect you to call them Polish-American, etc. Its too much of a hassle, and "black" should not be taken as a racial insult.

[jourige]

naturalcali wrote: Typical rude black girls? So now the typical black girl is rude? Well maybe if people like you didn't say bigoted, prejudicial and racist things like that people wouldn't be rude to you. I'm a black girl who's into Alt. Rock. I get weird stares by white people all the time, when I go to shows I'm like the only black girl there, and I've been called the N word to my face. Do I think this behavior is typical of white people? No. Because I, unlike some *coughyoucough* know well enough than to assume that some rude people of a certain race speak for the entire race itself. You should try it.

You have an excellent point. She generalized all black girls, and that was very rude.
She should of put something else to symbolize those few girls, instead of "typical."

[jourige]

doubledutchess wrote: nether should white but alot of times it does.I have n0 problem wit hbeing called black even though i could be called Hawaiian.

True. I should be referred to as Italian-American. But, I'm not.

[xxxrya]

ashie93 wrote: i also hate when our race always throws the race card out EVERY SINGLE TIME a white/caucasian person says something about us. Or they say they are hurt. Shut up. You are not hurt. Its ok if we throws racial slurs at other races but as soon as they say something we get mad. Shut up you just want to start something. Really. It really bothers me. i kind of sorta agree with what you are saying because i have encountered the same from my own race which is ridiculous but whatever. I mean not every one is rude. Im not rude at all. I hate rudeness so i couldnt be rude. But yes some people in our race needs to grow up and start acting mature because we are giving people a stereotype of ourselves that we dont like but we live by it everyday through our speech and appearance.

I feel as if you are a bit contorted. How dare you put your own race down. Like wow, I've never met someone who seems to have no pride. I'm sure that might seem a bit harsh but it's my perception. Black people play the racial card? But doesn't every one. Is this topic itself not of racial content? Gosh, I'm actually a bit discussed just because I'm a fellow minority like wow.

Everyone is rude no matter their color. Has anyone ever sat and thought that maybe it's their enviroment that makes them the way they are. Maybe they are from the inner city/urban areas where stuff like that happens. I know I am, and I know that's how it happens. Sometimes you can only get respect by bussin on someone. Also that might be the only way to stop others from picking on you. You may not agree with it but thats how things are.

I don't understand how race is attributed to level of rudeness. So please explain it to me. Is it the darker you are the ruder you must be?

[xxxrya]

jourige wrote: What do you want her to call them? African-American? Those girls could be Haitian. Or any other nationality where the people are dark skinned. You probably might call her white. Or me. So, if you want people to call you African-American, then they will expect you to call them Polish-American, etc. Its too much of a hassle, and "black" should not be taken as a racial insult.

I think she's referring to the fact that girl might be white and not "Light Skinned" SO why does she call black people black and not white people white

[falaland22]

WHAT YOU WROTE SOUNDED VERY RACIST. THIS IS THE ENTERNET WHY WOULD THEY BE JELOUS OF HOW SKINNY YOU ARE , IF THEY WERE THEY CAN JUST MAKE THERE SKIN LIGHTER AND MAKE THER MEEZ SKINNY THIS IS THE ENTERNET YOU CAN DO THAT.IF YOU WERE TIRE OF THEM BEEN ''RUDE'' TO YOU WRITING WHAT YOU WROTE THE WAY YOU DID IS NOT MAKING THING ANY BETTER.