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younginstasy wrote: And yes, I honestly think it's irresponsible to have babies that young. CHILDREN should NOT be having sex. At 13, you haven't even found yourself, how can you possibly be ready for sex?

i agree with you!

[amethyst_x]

I mean really, 12- 13 year olds having kids? That is so messed up. I have bad pictures in my head when thinking about it... Ugh. When i was 13, i had a problem getting a boyfriend nevertheless having sex with him. I can't imagine kids that age having sex. I CAN imagine them getting raped and not having doing it by their free will. That certainly happens quite often.

[silentscreamsx]

I don't even think they should be having sex for a start, I agree with amethyst (sorry, I don't know your name) at 13 I only had my first kiss under my belt, and had trouble with boyfriends(finding them, keeping them long enough to be comfortable with them) If they had gotten raped, that's completely understandable, but as Alex made note, there were lots of them, so I doubt that they all got raped.

All in all, this just comes to blame at the parents, for example some questions I'd like answered. Where were they, why didn't they put a stop to the pregnancy. If I had a child and at 12 she told me SHE was pregnant, I'd flip a bridge and get her an abortion, I wouldn't allow her to be pregnant. I mean your body hasn't even finished growing yet, it will not be ready to make a child, I guarantee you, any child that is born from a 12 or 13 year old, will have some major(or minor) health issues.

[emo_gurly345]

How can you raise a baby only at 13? You need alot of money.

[allyallaround]

so0o_kute wrote: she can have her mother's support. Parents or any family member

Yes, she can.
But that doesn't mean that she should go out at the age of 12 and get herself pregnant. If it weren't for her parents, she wouldn't have a roof over her head, or food on her plate. Doesn't really sound much like a very responsible mother to me.

[xxgorejessxx]

I know i really shouldn't be talking, but, you know, at least i'm being responsible. These 12 and 13 year olds are stupid prissy middle-schoolers who will do anything to impress their first boyfriend.

[cece_skelington6]

Im so sure that kids at 12 dont know anything and plus they shouldnt be having sex at 12 i mean wow look at how bad the economy is and there is no jobs so like yeah its like 40 dollars for baby formula with that i can buy myself like 5 to 4 shirts at hot topic or some concert tickets!!!!!

[1sweetstrawberry]

Well, I agree with some of you I remember in guidance a statement said," You must be able to pay rent, before becoming a parent." Basically what this is saying is that you should be at an appropriate age and atleast married. Although I don't agree on the Abortion issue, because isn't getting one really commiting a murder. C'mon just think about it even an embryo is still a living thing so you would be a murderer am I right?

[younginstasy]

1sweetstrawberry wrote: Well, I agree with some of you I remember in guidance a statement said," You must be able to pay rent, before becoming a parent." Basically what this is saying is that you should be at an appropriate age and atleast married. Although I don't agree on the Abortion issue, because isn't getting one really commiting a murder. C'mon just think about it even an embryo is still a living thing so you would be a murderer am I right?

Being married does not make you ready for a child.
I don't know HOW many times people have to say it. You can be married and still be a shitty parent. Just like you can be single and be a great parent. My mom did it, and she wasn't married when she was raising me.


No, abortion is legal. Murder is not. The very definition of murder in the legal sense, cannot include abortion because it has none of the same properties.

Hope you don't eat meat, since you would be a murder. Hope you don't scratch your self, since skin cells are also living. Hope you don't eat eggs. Hope you don't step on grass. And I sure as hell, hope you don't take medicine to kill viruses and bacteria, since that would make you a murderer.

Oh, and fyi, you commit murder every single month, since an egg is a living thing and you have period.

[taranne]

Being married does not make you ready for a child. I don't know HOW many times people have to say it. You can be married and still be a shitty parent. Just like you can be single and be a great parent. My mom did it, and she wasn't married when she was raising me.

When I was born my mom wasnt married either, cause my dad left when he knew my mom was pregant with me.
I agree being married doesnt make you a good parent.

And having a baby at 12 years is definatly too young, so is 13.
When i want to have kids i´d like to be about 27 or something, i want to studdy and make my live okay.
Have a house and a partner who will stay with me.
I mean some people are already very mature with twelve, and know how to life live and that their middleschool bf will stay with them forever and ever till we die.
And the bunny frm alice in wonderland is real, not really.
If your mature enaugh to have sex you should be mature enaugh to use a condom or take the pill.
And if the condom broke there is soemthing called the pill after, its hormons that kill the "baby" and if you take it 24 hours after you had sex its still okay i think. /never used it though.