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My boy friend asked me today to com home with him a and i did and out of nowhere he started askin me and tellin me that he loved me and i kept saing i luv u back and then he asked me to have a baby with him agian then he hugged me and i started to cry but i still dont know what to say  Last edited by viki9610; 3 Weeks Ago at 02:52 PM. | |||||||
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You are 15, it is irresponsible for you to WILLINGLY get pregnant at this age. Not only because you're a child, but because you will NOT be able to provide the best life for your baby. On top of that, babies born to teenagers are more likely to be high risk pregnancies. (They have a higher chance of being disabled, or to be born prematurely, and have lung problems) If you actually care at all about your child, you will wait to to have one.
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Just because you want to have a child, doesn't mean that you SHOULD, or that you CAN. There is a big difference. I'm 22, and 37 weeks pregnant, do you know how much money my Fiancée and I have spent even before the baby arrives? We've spent over 5,000$ Doctor appointments, ultrasounds, (even WITH heath insurance) crib, changing table. Baby stuff is NOT cheap. You cannot even legally work yet, and even if you could, you would have a minimum wage job, which probably doesn't cover all of these expenses. After the baby is born, you will spend about 10,000$ within the first year. You cannot care for a child. WAIT until you are older, and you are in a committed and stable relationship. Which at 15, you most likely are not. If your boyfriend cared at all for your AND your future child's well being, he wouldn't be asking you such a life altering question so young.
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You wanted an answer I gave it to you. I don't care if you "think" your situation is "different." You just keeping giving me excuses, which I don't care about. There is NO REASON, why a 15 year old girl should have a baby. Period.
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